Ok, so I am very new to this. I am recently divorced and I read the article in City weekly. How do I get started in the lifestyle? Are there things that I need to know? Are there other sites that I can sign up on to get started?
Anyone willing to give a new guy to the scene some 411?
I am sure Cindy will reply and give you tons of details but you should get on the guest list and come to Eden to check it out. You can find the single male membership info on the website... http://www.universaledenhouse.org/page16.html. There are quite a few websites out there like Adult Friend Finder and Swing Life Style. I have very minmal experience with them and would rather meet face to face at Eden. I know other have alot more knowledge in that area so I wil let them answer.
Thanks for the reply. I am going to have to go look at those sites, see which one would be good for me to get onto. Have you heard anything about I think it is called Swingular? I just heard about it yesterday. Let me know what you think.
I have never been on swingular myself. I have heard good and bad things about them but I have no idea if it is true or not. Hopefully someone else on here can share their expertise with you. Come on guys... help out. :)
I'm not much help since we are also fairly new, and we prefer to stay within EH walls right now. We started to look at Lifestyle Lounge, but it was more to learn about the Lifestyle, not really hook up with anyone.
I suggest just emailing Cindy and asking to be put on the guest list for a friday night. The people are very welcoming, and you get a better idea of what it's about. Not just browsing ads.
Well Steve I hope you have found some answers to what you are looking for. If not, and you (or any other Newbie) need additional information here is what I have garnered about at least two of the websites you have been told about or mentioned.
Adult Friend Finder is a halfway decent site for meeting people looking primarily for sex. You will be severely hampered in meeting anyone though unless you pay for one of their premium memberships.
Swingular is geat place to learn about the lifestyle. You still need to purchase a membership but they have a great forum section and a free video chat chatroom that can really help you get to know people.
